The Sexy Christian

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So I have been trying to figure out why I want a Mac so bad. My work provides me with a perfectly good PC to check my email, hop on the internet, and to post this article. In the creative world, Macs are simply better because of their processing power and operating system, but that doesn’t matter too much for me checking my email and posting this article. Besides, I have a Mac Pro for video editing and audio recording, but I don’t need a Powerbook to check my email or to post this article. So why is it that when I walk in to Starbucks, and pull out my Dell, I feel embarrassed?

I recently watched a Mac commercial. It was about how Mac is green. The battery lasts a long time and has a longer shelf life, etc., etc.   I thought to myself, I need a Mac so that I can care about the environment more. How ridiculous is that? If I don’t have a Mac, I am the pudgy, dorky, slightly overweight guy who could never get a date, especially if you are standing next to Mac guy. Fortunately my wife loves me for my Dell!

So what does this say about us as consumers in America? How about all of my Mac friends out there? Why do you have a Mac? Is it for the processing power? Is it because it offers you more programs than a PC that you use for your business? Or do you have one because it’s more sexy than a PC? Or even more so, do you have one because you subconsciously believe the ads that the Mac itself makes you more sexy, green, artistic, relevant, and hip?

I think it would be a far more interesting discussion to think about how the Mac influence has worked its way into what we do in ministry. I only bring this up because as I look at myself in ministry, and even the motivation behind why I do what I do, I can see a lot of the same mentality creeping up in my drive and purpose. How can I become a more sexy Christian? What do I need to do to be more artistic, green, relevant, and hip? Is it possible that I have been influenced by a very effective marketing campaign whose book deals and growth techniques entice me?  Or better yet, is it the crafty lies and deceit of an enemy set on destroying our intimacy with God? I have been convinced that there is a formula, product, or program that will make my ministry more attractive to others. It will make my band more attractive, my art more attractive, and the list goes on and on. How can I make my ministry more sexy? How can I be a more sexy Christian?

Paul warns against this kind of stuff. He warns of us being more influenced rather than being an influence. I am going to paraphrase here, and possibly take a bit of artistic license. He speaks of how he preaches the cross and Him (meaning Christ) crucified. He says that this is the only tool that he has to be an effective minister, but I really don’t think that we as believers today actually believe those words. I mean, it has to be the Gospel…and yes, we have the Gospel and a sweet multimedia presentation. We have the Gospel and a television ministry. We have the Gospel and a drum circle or a smokin’ worship band. I am certain that I don’t think that any of these things are bad, but my concern is that I have come to the conclusion that the Gospel isn’t sexy on its own.

My wife and I are involved in a ministry that goes into brothels to minister to prostitutes. For the last year, they have tried everything to gain entry into these people’s lives. They tried serving them, gift baskets, even being covert. None of those methods worked. One day one of the team members got a really dumb idea. She suggested that they go in and wash the feet of these women of the night! I can’t think of anything more counter culture.  Prostitutes are the most marginalized individuals in our society, by both believers and non.

So the ministry started doing just that. They started praying really hard and going in and sharing how Jesus came to serve and would wash his disciples feet. All of the sudden, they began to be invited into the brothels. They were asked to stay for dinner by the “House Mommas”.  They were asked to pray with the girls, read scripture, and share about the life of Jesus. Low and behold, people started getting saved in the brothels! The Gospel worked! It really worked! It was sexy enough.

So, in the infamous words of Justin Timeberlake, “I’m bringing sexy back.” I am going to stop this nonsense that says that God needs my “anything” to reach the lost or impact the individuals in my congregation. He has already done so, and the greatest story that was ever told is my story to tell and it is the only thing that will be effective should I allow my gifting to tell it without the Mac pollution.

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  • http://www.theworshiparts.com Jay Sandifer

    Should the Bride of Christ be unattractive?…and, by the way…I DO like the above article.

  • http://www.practicalworship.blogspot.com/ milepost13

    I don't know about the rest of you, but I make my Mac sexy.

  • http://kitpalmer.wordpress.com Kit Palmer

    Sex Sells! So the question is, are we trying to SELL Jesus to the lost, or simply share the good news?

    I love your story about the ministry to the prostitutes…that is real Christianity in action!

    The Mac vs. PC analogy reminds me of an article by Donald Miller I read recently.

    http://donmilleris.com/2009/02/05/why-apple-users-might-be-fat-losers-on-the-inside/

    I think it ties in nicely to what you’ve said here.

  • http://www.russhutto.com Russ Hutto

    Great post! Anxious to see the discussion!

    For me, I prefer Mac because it’s better. Though sexy does have a nice ring to it.

    It’s kind of like that country song, She think’s my tractor’s sexy. Well…

    Maybe not.

    Personally, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I don’t NEED any computer to do real ministry. Regardless of the justifications, ministry is about connecting with people and there’s no PC, Mac, tweet, thrown sheep, or forum that can beat looking someone in the eyes and listening to them pour out their heart to you.

    THAT is sexy.

    My Mac is a luxury. So is my PC, by the way. I use both.

    Thanks for the thought provoking post this morning!

  • http://therunamuck.com Amber@theRunaMuck

    I do think I’m fairly sexy at times. I do use a Mac. I do think it’s easier than a PC. BUT all this has everything to do with Nothing in the kingdom.

    Being sold out, and not to MacIntosh, is irresistible. Even the thought of someone actually LOVING a prostitute makes me love Jesus so much I could hit the floor. Praise Him that His glory does not depend on my Cool! It would be Hell in a hand-basket.

  • http://travispaulding.com Travis

    While they are sexy, I switched to Mac when I started a video/multimedia production company in 2005. The initial plunge was to get into the Final Cut Suite (now Studio) and the Adobe apps that run better there. I am now TD at a church and the entire staff is now on Mac except for one. We switched here because of their stability and ease of use. Two years ago we had 75% on Mac and the rest on XP. We spent almost 100% of our “IT” time servicing the XP boxes… THAT is why we switched.

    Oh, and they are sexy.

    I said that already I think.

  • http://patrickandlydia.com Patrick

    My household is bicameral. We have Macs and Windows machines. In fact, I have a Mac that also runs windows.

    For me, it’s all about having the right tool for the job. In my experience, which is a focus group of one, I know… I have an easier time managing pictures, videos and other media on the Mac than the PC. I know that the Windows side has made leaps and bounds, especially in the past two or three years, but the “it just works” factor has been huge.

    I don’t love my mac, and I don’t love my PC.

  • http://godpowered.blogspot.com Kendall Massey

    I think this article raises a good point – but I think It has less to do with the Mac/PC debate and ministering to prostitutes (even thought I think that is fantastic – may you all be blessed and God be glorified through this ministry!).

    I have to say this article touches on a real issue for every christian: our motivation and our hearts. Why do we do what we do? Let me relate this back to the article…

    Why do you have that Mac? Is it because they’re now “cool” and “hip”? Do I really need it? Do I have it because it’s an important tool in my ministry arsenal or is it because of the 2009 bling factor? Am I more fanatical about my devotion to Christ than my devotion to a computer platform ?!? What is my true reason for having this possession?

    God sees why we do what we do… even if we don’t admit it to ourselves. Being attractive for the sake of attracting others to ourselves is vain and against the nature of God. Being attractive for the sake attracting others to God is different. It seems like a fine line and splitting hairs, but this fine line can be a great chasm depending on where your heart really is.

    Being attractive is a relative term, and we have to be careful about throwing it around (I’m substituting attractive for sexy.) However, what makes us attractive is the most important thing… Take Jesus – The bible describes Jesus as ordinary looking (Isaiah 53:2 – He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him.) but there was an attractive quality about Him as evidenced by the throng of followers that accompanied him from city to city. This attractive nature was made possible because of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit is a tool that is just as important in spreading the love of God and the salvation of Jesus’ name. The Holy Spirit guides us and empowers us. It leads us and can speak through us. The Spirit guided the writing of the word then and can give us new fresh insight on it now…

    Thank you, Rocky for being a vessel for the Holy Spirit today.

  • http://godpowered.blogspot.com Kendall Massey

    One more thing – I can’t get away from this comment…

    “I am going to stop this nonsense that says that God needs my “anything” to reach the lost or impact the individuals in my congregation. He has already done so, and the greatest story that was ever told is my story to tell and it is the only thing that will be effective should I allow my gifting to tell it without the Mac pollution.”

    You’re right. God doesn’t need your anything – He wants your everything. We have been empowered by Jesus – blessed by our High Priest – to go into all nations and teach and baptize them. If this computer can be such a tool, then I pray that God’s blesses it and the user. Help us all to stay away from the pitfalls of hate, detachment and pornography and instead connect us by the cleansing power of Jesus’ blood. That’s what places like this are for (Thanks Fred!) Just as the printing press helped make more bibles to give the word to more people, this coupling of ingenuity (computers and the internet) can give us new avenues to preach the message – the saving power of Jesus. When it becomes all about the tools and not about the blood is when we falter. May God be glorifued in everything we do!

  • Dion Lowe

    Technically speaking I use Macs simply because they work ‘how they are supposed to, WHEN they are supposed to’… (so much more than any PC unit in my experience anyways)

    Russ Hutto nailed a great point… we don’t NEED anything in ministry but the Holy Spirit and the compassionate care to involve ourselves in others lives…

  • yod

    I stopped worrying about being “sexy” when I got saved at age 30. I do use a mac now…for the last 4 months…but only because I got tired of my PC crashing and the hard drive dying every year…not to mention it just never performed as flawlessly as a macbook pro.

    but the greater point you make is that a true disciple doesn’t depend on anything but the Holy Spirit and on that, we agree.

    I have the “fortunate” position of never being associated with a large church so I’ve never fallen into the trap of thinking I could impress someone with “stuff”.

    I also have the very fortunate position of having been a professional musician for 15 years before coming to faith and playing in the secular world which enables me to recognize the “fame & fortune” trap that is so alluring to young musicians who have been in the church all their life.

    Whenever I find that what I’m doing is unfruitful for the Kingdom, I look for ways to “go small”. I literally ask, “How can I humble myself more today than yesterday?” In other words, how can I do less and therefore become more dependent on the Holy Spirit to accomplish this goal?

    Whereas it seems that, according to your article, there are those who are asking “what more can we do so people notice us and want to be like us? That seems like using envy to promote the gospel. Yuck.

  • http://www.northwestbible.org Rocky Presley

    I knew this article would get some comments! I love it. It is important that we all realized that this article is is not about why we have or how we use a Mac computer. I am a recording engineer, and I know that the Mac Pro murders everything out there, and is the only tool that I will use. Please try not to read it as a criticism about your computing platform, but rather an analysis of what motivates our hearts to do what we do. In our lives, social influences and corrupt worldviews abound all around us, and without noticing, those influences can taint our understanding of God, one another, and the way we live out the commands of God. We are constantly being sold something, but the Gospel, the Body of Christ, and your ministry is not a product to be sold but a story to be told, and a life of passion to be lived (that is a great lyric for all of you songwriters).

    Above someone pointed out a similar article by Donald Miller. It is a great read, so please check it out if you get a chance!

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  • http://www.called2music.com batsirai

    Thanks Rocky

    I was wondering why some people were commenting on their computer platforms!! Although the gold macbook in the article pic is sweet.

    Cool/Sexy is fear dressed up in black. Its like we need something artificial to make what is real appealing. Like sprinkling sugar on the kids vegetables.

    Our problem is not that the gospel is not cool – its just not real enough to us, so we need to dress it up. Just like the fearful person needs to act cool. The first comment on the article asked – “Should the Bride of Christ be unattractive?”. There in lies the mindset. That somehow without some makeup (LCD curtains, media, hair gel, etc) the world will not accept us.

    What they wont accept is fake? What they are looking for is power. If we want to add something to the message of the gospel – add demonstrations of power and love. Social justice, working of miracles(without the TV Crews), healings, acts of love, bringing hope (Home Extreme makeover) – lets add those to the gospel. As Paul did… I didn’t come with mere words, but with power….

    Let’s rediscover the reality of the gospel… and take the lipstick off the Bride. She has a husband who already loves her. No need to dress up to attract others…
    We want them to love Him – not us. Let’s share him – truth and power, word & Spirit, practical & supernatural, God here amongst us. We can’t bring what we don’t have – so let’s pursue his reality of truth and demonstrations of love & power in our own lives… and people will run to us asking for more.

  • http://godpowered.blogspot.com Kendall Massey

    I love this last comment. The reality of the gospel and take the lipstick off the Bride.

    Yes.

    You know, those couples… the ones you look at and know they are truely in love? After being around them, or even just seeing them in love, you want to be like that in your own marriage/relationships. We all have that desire hidden somewhere…

    Maybe if the Bride were most concerned with loving – passionately and without abandon – this beautiful Groom, who has more love and compassion than the world has ever known, then more people would run.

    Real love. What a revolutionary concept. :-) Nice Comment.

  • http://www.worshipmerger.blogspot.com Rocky Presley

    Batseri, that was awesome. Thank you for taking this conversation to a deeper level! They will know we are Christians by our love. Kendall, as I read your wonderful response, I had a couple of thoughts. I’ll just put it out there. Asking a man to relate to Christ as a bride is a stretch. For me, to relate to Jesus as a woman relates to her husband is just not the way that I am wired. The way that I love my God and the way that I love my wife also seem different. In my mind, I understand the concept of the Bridegroom longing for his bride. I believe that the purpose of proposing Christ as such in relation to the Church is to give us a practical way to see how he passionately relates to His collective body of believers, but may not necessarily dictate how we are to relate to him as individuals.

    Some see Him as Father. Some see Him as Redeemer. Some see Him as Lover. Some see Him as a Strong Tower. He is all of these and more, and as a man relating to an everything sort of God, I connect with the Father of God, and being an orphaned son adopted into the inheritance of the Kingdom due to the heroic rescue of Christ inspires my love to grow. I connect with the Justice of God, and so grows my love for poor and afflicted. It is beautiful to see people connect with the romance that Jesus has for His bride. My wife does that, and that is super sexy! I do not connect with that romance, but the amazing thing about God is that he is so “omni” that every human being that will ever exist can have a knowing of God that is unique from anyone else!

    That knowing is sexy.

  • http://www.worship180.wordpress.com Harry Walls IV

    People follow what’s cool. They always have and they always will. Mac has gone and made something that everyone thinks is cool. They’ve also made something that is very well put together and works flawlessly. With all that being said…

    Others have said this and I’ve enjoyed reading this discussion. Ministry is not going to be done any better on a mac than it would be on a PC. I own 2 macs and I use them for music. As a worship pastor, it has been much easier for me to do my job because of my mac. However, if I didn’t have them, I’d still be able to be effective in my job.

    We are called to love people. We are called to build relationships with those who don’t know Christ. My mac or your PC isn’t going to bring anyone closer to the Father. Real, true love is what does that. And to end similarly to the others, THAT is what’s sexy.

  • Laurie Schmidt

    Very thought provoking, I appreciate the points you have made, which, I think, have really very little to do with buying a Mac or not…

  • http://www.jonmcmahon.com jonny mac

    The bottom line of your whole article Rocky was”

    “Paul warns against this kind of stuff. He warns of us being more influenced rather than being an influence. ”

    Thats the whole point. And its a great point, this has really challenged me to think. The analogy of Mac/PC was great, some obviously didn’t get where you were going or were easily sidetracked the second you talk Mac vs. PC but its a great point.

    Are we being influenced by a heavily sedated high marketed society? I think so..

    And for the record, I’m a MAC guy…haa

  • http://www.chrisburke.ca Chris Burke

    very interesting article.. to answer your question… I use mac because of the power. I do graphics and video editing, and since I turned to mac, i’ve never had a problem. When I used windows, the system would freeze up half way through a project, and I would loose it.. I’ve been using mac for 7 years now, and I’ve never had a freeze, never had to reboot, never had a virus, never had a problem.. so to me, it just makes sense to use mac… and because of the money I’ve saved using mac, its why i tell everyone to switch to mac.. yes they are more expensive, BUT, i dont have to bring it to a tech every 6 months to get them to fix things, i dont need to buy norton every year.. .i save in tech support, because I just don’t need it anymore..

    as for your thoughts on the ministry.. I can’t agree with you more. For the first 3 years of my ministry with youth for christ, I tried to make it hip, flashy, in your face… this year, God was calling me to just share the message… and I started to do that, and I’ve noticed that this year, more teens are showing an interest in Christ than before, why is this.. its because I’m sharing of my personal relationship with Christ, i’m sharing stories from the gospel about changed lives.. and believe it or not, its changing lives!!!

    Great article!

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  • Jill Renquist

    This article becomes a bit more relevant in light of the recent sainthood of Steve Jobs in Christian Culture.

  • Cobyvr

    Very good!