Letters to Leaders, Vol. 1
October 28, 2009
We’re starting a new series – one that might stir some controversy, or might just be the “thank you” we sometimes need to hear. TWC will present letters written by your everyday Sunday church-goer to their worship leader. I wanted to know what they’d say to their leader, and thought you might want to hear as well. You won’t know who they are or what church they attend, but you will hear their heart. We hope this series both encourages and challenges us, as we seek to serve the Body of Christ from week to week.~mandy thompson
Dear Songful Shepherds,
I am grateful for the opportunity to gather with my fellow sheep and focus on our Lord in song and in the study of His Word under your leadership. I have been asking myself, “What does God’s Word reveal about our relationship with Christ that we should be learning and singing in worship music?” I once heard a quote that has stuck with me: Spiritual growth happens when we realize what is already true of us in Christ. If that is true, then we need songs that teach us about who we are in Christ. Lyrical peanut butter that sticks with you (sorry to those with peanut allergies). Songs that teach us things that we can be thankful for.
As a distracted sheep I often find that songs with little depth and great repetition are heavily affected by musical quality, but if a song has something to teach me, I can ignore musical oddities because I have something greater to focus on. Take for example, “In Christ Alone”: the lyrics describe a rich theological tapestry that gives me a tremendous amount to meditate on and thank my God for. Placing that against songs like ‘Open the Eyes of My Heart” the lyrical depth isn’t there (sorry, Paul Baloche, nothing personal). There are times for more repetitive songs, but please give us doctrine to chew on. The melody is a “Spoonful of Sugar,” but I need something that lasts through the day. As a sheep, I need real sheep food.
Thank you for listening, and thank you for leading. This is not about what I think I need, its about what I God says I really need. I really need food to grow on, and I need to be edified by Him through you.
Beholding Him,
Sheep
Related posts:
- Letters to Leaders, Vol. 3
- Letters to Leaders, Vol. 2
- 10 Tips for Worship Leaders: How to Enhance On-Stage Presence
- Worship Leaders: Play Songs Your Congregation Doesn’t Like
- Team Communication Part 1; Are You Thinking What I’m Thinking?

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I am so excited about this series!
I tend to think there is huge validity to what this "sheep" wrote in ... I hear this often. Yet, I am also quick to say that if all we focus on is "theology" songs, we can miss out on some of the simple, pure worship of just telling God that we love Him (agape) and declaring His worth.
Clearly, though - we're def. more extreme to that side than good, rich theology songs.
I agree with everything Fred said, especially this:
The rich theology songs are often about God, and mixed in with Bible study, small group time and sermons about God, I welcome the time to sing to God. A person needs time to reflect on what he or she has learned about God, and sometimes the repetitive phrases provide the perfect opportunity for that.
That said, some of my favorite songs are Hallelujah! What a Savior! and The Wonderful Cross, both rich theological songs with a more repetitive chorus that provides some of both in the same song.
As a long-time (8 years) member, and rotating worship leader, of a church which did predominantly hymns - songs with great theological depth - I can say that, though there were moments, I eventually had to leave: I really struggled with intimacy with God in that setting. Don't get me wrong: I LOVE depth, but not every song needs be - nor SHOULD BE - drenched with deep theology. It merely needs to be true. Granted, I think it best to balance a set: depth, and heart - fresh and new, with historic, but do focus only on weighty songs isn't necessary, is it?
I think what's neat about this series...if I'm not mistaken there's going to be more "LETTERS TO LEADERS" coming... is that there are indeed going to be more coming. We're going to get several perspectives. And that's a GREAT THING!
This is from but one seat in our congregations and helps us to put together a bigger picture. If all we read was this one letter we'd be totally out of balance. But add to it the letters that are coming and we can glean lots of nuggets to help us approach our leading exactly the way we need to.
As always, engage your congregation, not only from behind the mic, but from behind the lunch table, or fomr behind a board game, or from behind a movie ticket, or from behind a basketball game...Ok those are worded weird, but you get the point. Use other "things" besides the microphone to engage your people. Ask them where they are. Ask them what they need. And ultimately, HEAR them.
I'm not saying coddle people and cater to their every whim, but if YOU ask the right questions you'll get the right information to make you a better leader.
This letter is rich with nuggets that we can glean to ingest meditate on and hopefully become stronger leaders!
Great idea, Mandy!
I think this is a topic that every WL needs to work through for their own congregation; there is a range of what could be 'right' for a given church family.
I don't know why it is, but some individuals and congregations like more repetitive songs that speak from the heart. Other individuals and congregations like more theological songs that speak from the head. (A gross oversimplification, I know!)
We are to love God with *both* heart and mind, right? It's not an either/or. But based on our congregation's personality and bent, I think it is good service to determine what will edify them the best and give the best expression of their voice to God in worship.
We are contemporary in flavor.
We occassionally get a comment ( probably once every 6 months or so) about doing more traditional/theologically deep songs.
If, out of 2,000 + people in our congregation, we only get a couple requests like this each year - can we assume we are hitting our mark most of the time with our song selection? Do you all think that is an accurate assumption?
We are seeing a lot of growth spiritually in our congregation - and in the participation in worship. What do you all think?
Personally, I welcome this series. I think that we, as leaders, need to be plugged into the thoughts, and hearts of those we lead and serve. I look at it like this...If they aren't following...then I'm not leading.
I have always approached worship leading, and worship music in general, with the "family picnic" approach - a little something for everyone. Some easy repetition, and some meat to chew on. You can do both, and you probably should. As Lori points out, and as Russ and Nate have illustrated many times, we need to be conscious of the local culture that we live and play in, and help to provide the fuel for continuing growth and maturity.
As I said...looking forward to this!
Smitty
What a great thread! I'm not a worship leader (though I have led), but I am heavily involved in worship ministry, and have thought often about these very issues. I have to agree with the general tenor of this thread. It's not an either/or thing, but a both/and thing.
I think what needs to be acknowledged is that it is actually theology that drives our response. They are not separate, but inextricably connected! If we knew nothing about God, nothing of His goodness, nothing of His unspeakable love for us, we would not be moved to worship Him at all. But because we know Him, and because we have seen the light of His glory in the face of Jesus Christ, and because we know about His greatness through His word, we respond with worship.
If you played a whole set of theologically-driven songs, but there was no time for personal response, your people might be smarter, but they may have failed to truly enter into worship. If you play only response-driven songs, you may find the people having a difficult time "grabbing on" to the worship, because you're 'responding,' but you don't know what you're responding to. The idea that worship should just be automatic when the music starts is nave. I think a good worship set will do both. We need songs that express some great truth about God, even if the message is simple: "God is good." As we sing about the goodness of God, as we focus on the truth that God is good, all those "why God?" questions begin to fade and we begin to see Him as He truly is, and that naturally leads to worship. Follow that theology-driven song with a time of free worship, or a simple chorus like "Hallelujah," or whatever, and you've got a room full of people worshiping God! The "response" time to God is driven by an acknowledgment of some truth about God.
Well said, New!
Smitty