Keeping The Main Thing…The Main Thing


Can Keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing Help Bridge the Worship Generation Gap?

Many feel the worship wars have been fought, and that our congregations destined to be divided into ‘traditional’ and ‘contemporary’ forever.  The question is – does it have to be so?  Perhaps we should take another look at the music and the lyrics we are using and see where that leads us.

This is not a discussion of musical taste and style. I think these are definitely important, but are not the main issue. Style is something that can be easily modified to suit many listeners.  In the words of my friend Tom Kline – why do we have more participation singing ‘Sweet Caroline’ at a baseball game than in many churches?  What I mean is, a great song is a great song.  A great song, with a good hook and a catchy melody, will be sung by everyone.  Worship leaders can choose great songs and transcend musical style boundaries. It is not that hard.

I think the problem goes deeper than style. I think the problem goes instead to what  we are singing.  I assert that in much of our worship music, we have given in to the impulse of our times – to focus on ourselves – and that, in doing so, our lyrics contribute to the generation gap far more that we realize.  Ask yourself – what is this worship song saying? Many (most?) of the contemporary songs say something like the following:

You are the water that I drink
You are every thought I think
I turn to you when all else fails
You are the wind that fills my sails

They are more poetic than the doggerel above, but that is essentially their message. Notice the focus of the song – what God does for me, what I am thinking, under what circumstances I turn to God. But what have we really said about God?  His character? His promises?  His sacrificial redemption? His Word to us?  There is a place for such songs, and such sentiments are found in the Psalms, but I assert that by singing these to such a great extent, we tend to alienate many listeners, of all ages.

Research shows that people up to 25 years of age are still maturing, and that people ‘get serious’ after 25.  After 25 we tend to turn outward, to others, our children, and later, our legacy.  And we have lived through more, and understand the time-honored virtue of sacrifice, of citizenship, of loving others. But if our ‘contemporary worship’ is stuck on what we think under 25’s want to hear, then we will be singing things that are not the values of the people we want to participate.  Because, in the end, we want all ages to revel in the truth of God’s word.

Don’t get me wrong – even young people will sing a great song. And the Word of God and the Glory of who He is and has done and will do are relevant to all ages.  But if we conclude we have to be me-focused in our lyrics to reach a me-generation, thats the only generation we will reach, and we will further a divide we should be trying to bridge.

There is one Body of Christ, one Blood, one Salvation, and One Word.

Thanks to Mark Snyder for sharing this article with The Worship Community. Mark Snyder is a longtime worship leader, software engineer, and lead songwriter for the Tree Hill Collective ( functioning as a resource to provide songs for the church from new songwriters, focusing on the art of the worship song as it applies to the worshiping church of all ages. Mark has a wife and two grown sons and resides in Glendale, AZ, with his wife of 27 years Roseanne.