Smitty, I lost my Mother to Alzheimer's a little over a year ago. It was very hard watching her go from a vibrant, loving woman to an empty shell walking around. It was especially tough for my Dad, as he was with her 24/7 to the end.
And we miss her, but the truth is, we were missing her for a long time before she actually left.
The bright side to all of this is the assurance that she is now with her heavenly Father. I like to picture her as part of that great Celestial choir surrounding the throne, singing praise to God Almighty.
For our family, and especially for Dad, in the final weeks, when it was apparent that the time was close (she stopped eating altogether, and lived about 10 days longer) there came a great sense of relief, for we knew that the long imprisonment of her mind, and our ongoing nightmare, was about to end.
I hate that your family is having to go through this. It is probably the worst form of dying there is (for the family,) but after it is all over, life will go on, and in a way you can't yet understand, you will all be richer for having gone through it.
I will include your family in my prayer time.
Tom
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