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wyf4lyf
07-14-2007, 11:39 AM
Hi everyone,

I'm Nina -- pronounced "Knee-na" which is relevant since I recently underwent knee replacement surgery. :eek: I've been married to my wonderful husband, Glenn, for 22 years and we have 2 great kids, Caleb who will be 20 (yikes!) next month and Jake who is 16. Ah the teen years...

I'm the Worship Pastor at Vineyard City Church in Tucson, AZ. I've had that position for a bit more than 5 years. (Where has the time gone?!) Prior to that, we attended the Vineyard in Palo Alto, CA, where I was on the worship team on and off (mostly on) for 12 years, starting as a keyboard player and vocalist, and then was the leader for about a year during a transitional time...and then was a substitute leader after that. The Lord spoke very clearly to my heart in 1993 that He was calling me to be a worship pastor...it was a 9-year journey of laying it down again and again, lots of tears, lots of questions. Ulitmately, LOTS of refining. I can look back at many things during those years and see the "why" but at the time, the waiting was tough. We moved to AZ to support our then-associate-pastor and his wife who were moving from CA to AZ to senior pastor a small church. When he took the job, there were about 80 people in the church. By the time he and his family moved here, there were about 55, and by the time my family got here (6 months later...we had a house to sell before we moved), it had dwindled down to 35...and then got to about 25 at one point. What a journey! There was already a worship pastor in place, so I figured I would support him and be mentored by him. Well...our boxes weren't completely unpacked when I was told that the worship pastor was burned-out, had never felt called to that position, and really wanted OUT. God is a sneaky God, isn't he? Our pastor, the worship pastor and I worked together on a 3-month transition so that it wouldn't be too sudden for the church or the team. So that's how the Lord began the fulfillment of the call I'd heard 9 years earlier!!

I share all of that because I imagine there are some people on this forum who are in that waiting process... waiting for a promise of God to be fulfilled. It's worth the wait. And the biggest thing I learned is that it's too easy to make an idol out of the promise...out of the destination...when what the Lord wants is for us to trust Him and put the promise on the back burner and not have it consume our lives. It was a hard lesson for me. If anyone is in that place right now, I'd love to share more and pray for you. Feel free to write!!!

My heart as the leader of this ministry can be summed up by our 3 priorities -- Love God, love each other and musical excellence...and in that order. I've been in too many situations where it was all about the music...done out of love for God, of course...but there wasn't much happening by way of getting to know each other, caring about each other, etc. We practice once a week and begin each time by checking in with each other, how's the week been, etc. We take time to pray for each other, and also to worship together a bit before we dive into whatever we'll be working on.

In the past 5 years, I've seen us grow immensely in our musical skill, but far more important to me is that the 12 people involved in the band, along with the folks on audio, video, and our intercessors are all ONE TEAM and we all love each other. We have A LOT of laughter together. I hear so many horror stories of in-fighting and jealousies, "us vs them" mentality between band and sound team, and I give glory to God that we have none of those issues. Of course, you never know what's around the corner. But I praise God for what we have now.

I lead mostly from acoustic guitar and occasionally from the keyboard. I do love playing and singing from the keys when one of my other leaders leads...takes me back to my roots, plus getting to sing harmony again from time to time is a delight that I miss when I'm leading.

Right now our church meets in a school, though we are hoping to begin to look for a building to lease within this next year. We have about 100 adults now who regulary come...though never on the same Sunday (except for Easter)...and lots of kids. I have one other worship leader who leads for me once a month so I can have a regular break and I'm also in the process of mentoring a 3rd leader. I feel really blessed to have this for a church our size.

As for the rest of the team, we have 12 on the roster, but the configuration changes from week to week depending on availability; typically we'll have a full band twice a month (acoustic, electric, keys, bass, drums, vocalists)...and then some kind of acoustic band the other 2 weeks. That can range from me with a guitar and another singer, to 2 acoustics, keys, congas, djembe and several vocalists. I like how the Lord has given us a mix of things so that our congregation doesn't get too used to the same kind of sound every week. I am beginning to think about perhaps forming set teams...smething I'll be praying about for the next few months.

I'm almost 46 years old, so that makes me kind of ancient in this biz...but I like mentoring younger people, especially women.

And obviously I still don't know how to be short and sweet on these forums!! If anyone read all of this, then you get a gold star. :)

Looking forward to getting to know you all!

Blessings...
Nina

tony c
07-14-2007, 11:53 AM
Nina, I've only been a member of TWC for a week or so, and I have to tell you, the folks here are wonderful. Fred and Michael (moderators) are very encouraging.

Wow, how great was it to be able to have a transition period from the former worsip pastor to you! When I left my old church, I offered to stay for a couple of months, to help the transition to a new worship leader (who I had been training to lead for a couple of years), but my pastor told me "be released", so my former congregation went cold turkey. Fortunately, the woman who told my place is a wonderful woman of God, and things are now settled and going well.

Enjoy the threads. I particularly enjoy the worship leader and worship team threads.

Hope to see you soon somewhere in TWC ...

SeanMichael
07-14-2007, 03:38 PM
Welcome Nina! Sounds you are involved on an awesome ministry out there in AZ. It also sounds like you have a great resource of volunteers, which is always a blessing!

Sean

fmckinnon
07-14-2007, 05:11 PM
Nina -
Great to have you here with us! Welcome - love the Vineyard, and thankful for so much wonderful music they've brought. I'll forever be grateful to the exposure of more intimate, vertical music in the 90s that I found through Vineyard, and writers like Andy Park, Scott Underwood, Brian Doerson, and countless others.

I publish a writer, Steve Leis, that used to be hooked up with the Vineyard in Tucson - I think he's somewhere else now .. know him (or of him?)

wyf4lyf
07-14-2007, 07:43 PM
Yes! I've actually not met him, but I know his dad, Rick, who is the pastor of another Vineyard here in town. We used to share offices together. Very cool!

Rom8girl
07-14-2007, 08:30 PM
Are you dying of heatstroke yet? Hey Nina! I'm happy to know another worship leader here in Tucson who's watching, waiting and looking for whatever our Father has around the corner. What a big move, for you to come down south to the desert to help your pastor bring up a new fellowship. Are you at Doolen Jr. High, by any chance? I live about 4 blocks due east of there. Crazy. But have been at our Vineyard since 1988 and love our family. Truly a community. I'm encouraged that your church family is gelling as well. I love how God brings things about!
I came into becoming a worship leader at our Vineyard by a silly happenstance, back in 1995 (just another move God had in mind that I had no clue of). I'd been leading the women in worship at our ladie's bible study during the week and working the sound on Sundays when one of our main worship leaders was offered a well-paid position to start a contemporary service at another church. He left the team high and dry! The other team members tried one Sunday to go at it on their own, with a new guitarist who didn't know the songs. It was apparrent that they needed someone with a little more experience, so they asked me if I'd fill in just for one Sunday, and if I liked it, maybe more. Ok, so 12 years later, I'm still here! I remember those early days when I'd sit down and think, "Oh my gosh, what just happened?" I was so focused on whether my skill level was where it should be, and did we sound OK. Sometimes I felt like I had just been raked over hot coals naked. (Sorry about the image, but I really felt vulnerable and embarrassed if I had made a mistake) Wow! Have I learned alot since then! Oh, I wish someone would have told me sooner that it is so NOT ABOUT ME or about my opinion of my skill level! (even though I agree that skill is important, but not necessarily the most important). After lamenting to one of the pillars in the church, she told me a story with the moral being, "You do what you can do." God used her to convey a point. I do my part, and if I make a mistake, oh well. It's all about honoring Him with what He's given us, and if it's not perfect in my eyes, it's still God's time and He will have His way. I so can't do what I do in my own strength, and I'm glad He taught me that early on. Every Sunday we give it up to Him, understanding that we are nothing without Him and to please have His way with us as a congregation and to work in us and use us to bring the people in the building closer to Him. (Sometimes I think He uses what I call His "Holy Filter" because at times I may not like what I hear behind the speakers, yet we'll get feedback that God moved hearts). God has taught me so much about His faithfulness and how important worship is to Him. In so many other aspects of my life, I struggle with heart issues: idols, fears, etc., but God has ALWAYS met us in worship. He has always been faithful to have His way and glorify Himself despite how I may feel about it. Praise be to the One who will be glorified on earth and in the heavens!
Well, I think I'm a bit winded with this writing thing too. I'm looking forward to bouncing ideas off of this community. Welcome! and I hope we meet sometime!
Janice