1) I agree with Russ on not being on the same page as leadership. In my case it was pursuing excellence in the vision that was communicated to me vs. that vision not being pursued by the leadership. I singed on to do 'x', which was communicated to me by leadership and was being asked to do 'y' by the same leadership.
Another thing that is very stressful to me was lack of communication or planning. While I undestand the holy spirit can move and require changes this was by no means the case where I was. There were times when, while going thru the service, I thought 'gosh this song or this element would have been perfect to go with what he is saying/doing/teaching.' Missing those opportunities to make an impact with music/art/drama/whatever were very disappoiting.
2) I guess I went to the extreme and removed myself completely from the situation. I left the church on good terms and will have eyes well open to the mext ministry opportunity that comes along. Communication will be a priority along with relationship.
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Love the Lord your God with all your heart with your soul with all your mind and with all your strength!!
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